While you remain house and run the household house, she's going to be out discovering by herself.

1) you aren’t compassionate sufficient 2) you’re judgmental 3) you’re controlling 4) insert normal human reaction to abused/used/manipulated/etc that is being. and spin it in a negative light .the disordered will always make use of your psychological reactivity with their provocation against you. It’s a catch 22, together with only option would be to leave the overall game.

Well written Gab. Last two sentences will be the inescapable truth and should always be seared into our minds.

Appropriate. we got the “controlling” blameshift, from an asshole whom controlled my entire life and took away my freedom of preference through lies and manipulation. You’re a homophobe to be upset that we cheated with a female.” is utter nonsense. We bet he’d hear the same bullshit from the counseller if they went to an RIC MC. He can potentially turn it around and phone her a heterophobe when it comes to abusive method she’s dealing with him.